People get divorced all the time because they either cant get along, have cheated or been cheated on, fallen out of love with each other, what ever that reason may be divorce is a very real subject and people need to know about it. So let me tell you some things that you may not know that could help you before and after the divorce. Some people after they get a divorce may need help getting through it. Don't worry there are tons of things you are able to do to help yourself after getting a divorce like: finding a good support group, one that you are going to be able to express your real feeling. There are divorce therapists that are schooled in divorce, to maximize your chance of getting over the divorce faster. Another good thing you can find that doesn't cost much at all is a book.
Go to your local library and try to find a book their and if they don't have anything they could know some place that would carry books on the subject of coping with divorce, something along those lines. Half the time it's only one of the spouses that want a divorce, so this leaves that other person thinking about what they could say or do to try to make the marriage last. People ask all the time what can I say to make them stay well I'm going to give you some simple things you can start doing to try to save your marriage. Start to agree more often with the other spouse on things, you can also try not doing anything that would get on the other persons nerves, there's also marriage counseling that you guys could go to as a couple but this all depends on how bad you want to save your marriage. If you are going through a divorce you may still need to find a lawyer, this could be harder then it sounds.
You want to make sure your getting someone that you will be able to trust. If you have a lawyer and you have used them for years I would advise you to stick with that person, but if you don't then make sure when picking a lawyer they are there to help you and not just take your money. Do research on that lawyer if you're not sure about them because you want to make sure their going to be able to help you get everything that you are in titled to. I could go on for days about divorce, so when getting one or thinking about getting one make sure you know everything there is to know.
This will protect you and help you out in the long run.
Darin Lawson Hosking has much more Surviving Divorce advice at SurvivingDivorces.com